When I Grow Up - A Memoir (2008 Book)

Juliana's book was published by Wiley in 2008.

It's still available at Amazon.

Spiketop has a set of photos from an LA in store session in September 2008.

The Boston Phoenix had an excerpt of Chapter 34 ('Windows') (now offline but viewable in the scanned pres skit below or at the Wayback Machine), which details the series of events surrounding her depression and cancellation of her European tour in 1995:

It felt like this time, unlike all the others, the cloud wasn’t going to dissipate. This infernal woe had spread its poison all through my brain and body, as well as the city and sky, and I couldn’t see any way out. And I had to go on tour. It was all planned and scheduled and arranged. I guessed going on the road would be no worse than sitting in my apartment waiting for the end of the world, alone.

It’s so difficult to describe a bad depression. Even if one could capture it in all its blank, dead horror, she would know that there was not really any point in telling anyone else. Talking about how one’s blood has run cold, or dry, or black, doesn’t bring any relief. It’s as tedious for the sufferer as for the listener. Telling someone is only burdening him with a big problem that doesn’t appear to have any solution: it hurts to be awake. The morbidly depressed person’s only hope is for unconsciousness; for the gift of sleep to free her for the requisite seven or eight hours each night. Even then, disrupted or stunted sleep is often part of the problem.

The New York Times had an interview:

"You find yourself approaching middle age, playing another scuzzy rock club, trying to hold onto your dignity, but the toilet is overflowed, and the place stinks of stale beer. I still have all the faith and love for my music and yet I’m still playing places for kids."

 

Juliana on Don't by Dinosaur Jr. from an interview offering a playlist of accompanying music to the book at largeheartedboy.com:

"It was maybe the most authentically tortured and anguished vocal performance I'd ever had the pleasure (or horror) to witness."


Juliana reading exceprts and discussing the book at Northeastern University, Boston, USA on 14 January 2009:

Press Kit

Juliana’s 2008 Press Kit from publicists Big Hassle contained some of the aforementioned interviews and more on the How To Walk Away album. View the whole kit as a pdf or individual images relevant to the book below:

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 Chapter List

  1. August 1: Hoboken

  2. Vision

  3. August 2: Philadelphia

  4. In the Woodshed

  5. August 3: New York City

  6. Angel Girl

  7. August 4: North Bergen to Boston

  8. The Interview Interview

  9. August 5: Cambridge

  10. Sassy

  11. August 7: Cleveland

  12. Big Money

  13. August 8: Columbus

  14. The Story of "My Sister"

  15. August 9: Indianapolis

  16. Cool Rock Boys

  17. August 10: Chicago

  18. Guns and Roses and Me

  19. August 11: Iowa City

  20. My Idol

  21. August 12: Minneapolis

  22. The Harpsichord

  23. August 13: Minneapolis to Kearney

  24. Hair and Makeup

  25. August 15: Denver to Wendover

  26. Jeff Buckley

  27. August 16: Wendover to San Francisco

  28. August 17: San Francisco

  29. The Telecommunications Act of 1996

  30. August 18: San Francisco to Los Angeles

  31. August 19: L.A.

  32. Demons

  33. August 20: San Diego

  34. Windows

  35. August 21: Tucson

  36. Begging to Be Dropped

  37. August 22: Albuquerque

  38. August 23: Albuquerque to Oklahoma City

  39. August 24: Lawrence

  40. Hunger

  41. August 25: St. Louis

  42. The Last Leg

  43. The Year of No Music

  44. How to Walk Away